The Rules of Parenting - You Are A Loser If You Do This

If you lose your temper, you're the loser.

This is Everyday Rule 37 in the book, The Rules of Parenting, by Richard Templar.

Why will you be seen as a loser by your child? 

Because you lost yourself. You have lost control of yourself. Therefore, this tells the child that it's okay to lose temper.

But it may not be easy to control yourself. 

It can be done but it takes a lot of practice and discipline.

When you have decided that you will commit, do the following steps:

1. Stop yourself in your track once you start sensing the anger flowing out and walk to another place immediately.

2. Forgive yourself for being on the verge of anger. Forgive your child.

3. Bless yourself and bless your child.

You will find you have a calmer mind, and the relationship will be maintained. 

Both you and your child win because of your ability to manage your anger.

Cheers!

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